Four Steps Guide to Help You When Trying to Overcome Life Hurdles

 

Four steps guide to help you when trying to overcome life hurdles

When life happen to us in a good way, we'll begin to wonder what we might have done to deserve the amazing things that has happened to us. But if the worse happens  we will begin to feel pain and sorrow questioning why such thing happened to us. *Wink* Life is definitely not balance. 

If you  want live a good life you must really understand that the problems just happens no matter how careful or brilliant you are in life, something might just go wrong no matter how hard you try to avoid it or cause it from not happening. It's so life...

The best way to cope with any circumstances is to realise that challenges are part of life. Even though it may seem rough and too hard to handle, there's always a way forward.

Sometimes the solution we may have projected in our mind may not actually work. However, If you have been looking for a way to overcome some difficult life hurdles, the following four guides will help you in overcoming life problems/hurdles

1. Accept the truth and reality of your problem

2. View your story through a different lens

3.  Move forward carefully

4. Seek support

Accept the truth and reality of your problem;

In situations that are beyond your control and above you, you must have radical acceptance of the situation of things, prolonging matters will only make situation worse. Instead of wasting precious time thinking about situations that you cannot change not reverse, you should fully accept it and move on.

This doesn't mean you approve of the situation and neither does it mean you're resigning, it simply means you're giving yourself the chance to heal and make better adjustment towards upcoming plans, goal or obligation.

View your story through a different lens;

Thinking about our problems is not always bad, but you can turn those thoughts and feelings into something more productive. Love from another angle. I mean there's got to be a reason whatever you might have been going through.

There's definitely light at the end of dark tunnel.

Move forward and carefully;

In a world where evil things happens daily, moving forward in the face of challenges is  hard. Give your self a chance, you deserve peace, move forward but thread softly so that you can avoid making the same mistake over again. 

Before you completely move forward from previous occurrence, see what you can learn from it. There are so many things to learn from the challenges of the past, but while moving forward, readjust speed so that you don't fall back into the same pit again.

Seek support/help;

There are people who have more experiences more than you, learning from them, seeking for advice and support from them will also do you alot of good. Most of the time we  do not need to keep our problems to ourselves. We just need to open up and seek support or help from people we thought could help or have better knowledge than we do.

If you have been going through difficult times lately please join me in saying this short prayer and God will hear you and give you the peace and answer that you need.

Say Dear God, We thank you for this day and for every other days. We pray that you touch our lives and make us whole again. Grant our heart desires and forgive our sins. Give us the grace to overcome all our life hurdles, bless and also be with us. Amen

If this has help you in anyway, please don't forget to share and comment . Thank you

Mayomi Olayinka